VeganRAw

If she said that size matters, you need to forget about her. It won't work out. She obviously like it big which sucks! I saw 4.5 and up is just fine for women. You are 4.3, but still close to 4'5, so you're fine. If you are overweight or gain a lot then you should try exercising and eating healthy. The size may increase. I am not sure about this though! Tell her that you have it below avg. If she really likes you, size shouldn't matter.