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Old 08-27-2012, 06:46 PM   #2
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Re: Girlfriends newborn

You would not be the first man to bring up a child that wasn't his biological one. There are millions of great stepfathers and so on out there. Apart from your knowledge about the baby's paternity, how can this child be different from, for example, her other son? Put it this way - if you want the relationship, the child comes with it. If you don't think you can be a dad to this baby, then it may be better if you split. If it were me, I think the bond with the baby would make it "mine". A father is more than a sperm donor in the long run. Sera.