Re: Am I crazy or is this emotional abuse?
It is not you. I know she is your mom but the best thing you can do for yourself is cut her out of your life if you are able to. She is abusive. I go thru this w my bf his mom says things like " I could have had a life if I didn't have you" and "I wish you had amounted to something" by that she means rich and famous. Never mind the fact that he is a wonderful man. Our mothers are supposed to be kind loving and supportive. Yours sounds far from it.