Is this abuse?
I have been horribly abused in a previous relationship. So bad that I suffered P.T.S.D. after I got away. Yesterday my current boyfriend and I got into an awful argument yesterday. We have had them a lot lately. Yesterday he got so mad he shoved me hard. So hard I fell down. He says this is not abuse bc I did not have any black and blue marks nor was I bleeding. He says my ex did way worse to me so I shouldn't complain about being shoved. I say it is abuse either way. Who is right? I want to add that when he is mad he brings up private things I tell him and uses against me and talks horrible to me. I am very clear on the verbal abuse. That he denies as well.