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Old 09-25-2012, 08:19 PM   #3
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Re: Falling for the wrong person - but can't let her go just yet

As in most interactions, communication is the key. Don't treat her job like the elephant in the corner. Share your feelings on where you want this to go, and your fears (also the really positive stuff, obviously). If you cannot have this conversation with her, then that would be a bigger worry than her profession. Get it out on the table - your thoughts, her thoughts, all honest and upfront. Own your own wishes, don't put them on her "I would really like to try a romantic relationship with you" rather than "what do you want?" Think very hard about the whole thing, it would be crummy for both of you if you found that you couldn't cope with her job after all. Sera