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Old 09-27-2012, 02:50 PM   #1
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Fighting and compromising in a relationship

Hi, me and my GF are together for almost 2 years now. We love each other very much and the first few months was awsum. But now we are fighting like cats and dogs.. mostly about stupid stuff and sometimes more appropriate stuff. Im seeing a psychologist atm and trying really hard to resolve any arguments cause we are both really tired of fighting but she doesn't seem to compromise like I am. She doesn't want to see a psychologist and always just hears what I have to say but after a week or so we fight over it again. It seems that I tell her how I really feel and then she understands it for 20 min and forgets about it. She is only hearing what I have to say and not really listening. She regularly walks out of fights and I always have to say I am sorry (even if I was right). It seems that she always gets her way and I feel there should be a balance. Anyone have any advice on this and if this is healthy or not?