Re: question about wifes comments on "size"
I think that what people are offended about is your wife's inconsiderate attitude toward you! I'm so sorry to hear that she has said this to you because it's very rude of her. I'm really not sure what you should do but I would start telling her how hurtful it is for her continually compare you to her ex! Ask her how she would feel if you kept saying over and over again that your ex had a much nicer body than she does or something. It's such a rude thing for her to say and she needs to know that she needs to stop the comparing.