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Old 10-04-2012, 08:05 PM   #2
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Re: Dysfunctional Family

You are a lone voice crying in the wilderness here. My advice? Step back. You are enabling too, tho you don't realise it. You are the one holding it all together, and actually taking responsibility for everybody. This lets them stay in their feckless child place. Just check who has the worry lines in the family. It is time you started to gather yourself up in preparation for beginning your own life. The only thing i would do would be to quietly protect the baby from disease. As for the rest, let them get on with it. Wall off your own stuff, drop the mother role. It is time to take care of yourself, you have done your bit, well and truly. Sera