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Old 10-07-2012, 12:27 PM   #3
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Re: A Question for Pretty Women out there...

I have a feeling you might not get too many replies from these 'pretty women' you're talking to because basically, you insult them.

I'm pretty much like the previous poster - certainly wouldn't call myself a pretty woman. And definitely don't behave the way you describe. But I do know a lot of pretty/beautiful women and I have never seen them act like that. Course, maybe I'm just lucky.

What you're describing is a bully, and that does't go hand in hand with beauty. The worst bully I ever knew (in an workplace) was an overweight gay man. Hysterically funny, but catty! ouch! And it made me think way less of him, than whoever it was he was mocking.

My suggestion would be to keep a smile on your face, be as nice and kind as possible, and make a report to HR about bullying. (And maybe rethink the belief that all pretty women are like that.)

 
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