Re: Family is falling apart
What your sister wants at this point is irrelevant. You have your mother's POA. Your mother doesn't want to give it to her as well. And she's probably not legally competent to give it to your sister anyway. What to tell your sister? No. And smile sweetly when you say it. Seriously. Just tell her it's too complicated to have extra people on the account since you are responsible for the money and balancing the account. If she complains about the towels, etc - just say thanks for your input - and smile sweeetly. And just keep reinforcing that....thanks, dear. and go on about your business.