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Old 11-15-2012, 08:41 AM   #2
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Re: My bf wants to go back to swingers club

You need to be willing to take a big chance of losing your boyfriend, by saying NO and meaning it. To say no and then go back four more times...that is not a "no". I would say that your boyfriend is taking advantage of you, but maybe he is just believing what you are saying. He obviously isn't dragging you back four more times, you are agreeing. If this is what it takes to keep him, is he the man for you? That's what you need to ask yourself, and only you can decide that. I think that in due time, he is going to want to go to the swingers club and have you both having sex with other people. That's just my two cents.

 
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