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Old 11-19-2012, 02:15 PM   #2
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Re: SHould I forgive him or leave him?

This is not what a healthy relationship should look like. You have allowed his verbal abuse and believe me, he may say sorry til the cows come home, but he is NOT sorry! He is an abuser, though not (so far) a physical one. However his abuse is just as soul-destroying. You are already starting to blame yourself for the attacks, as all abused spouses do, but know this - IT IS ALL HIM! As we would advise any abused person, leave. He will only get worse, and as long as you keep forgiving him he will keep abusing you. Of course he acts repentant, he doesn't want you to leave and deprive him of a victim so he has to put on his nice face to train up another one. Nobody deserves to be abused. Sera

 
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