Re: SHould I forgive him or leave him?
Leave him. Those kinds of remarks are shredding. He's a verbal abuser, he will not change. You are capable of love, he is not, really. Grieve - it's okay to miss him, he obviously had his good points, but it's important to focus on moving on. Get some counseling to help repair your self-image. You are capable of love, you will love again, and next time it will be someone that deserves it.
Last edited by eriro; 11-19-2012 at 07:04 PM.
Reason: Additional thoughts