Re: Should I stay or should I go?
Whatever you decide, do it soon! Pity is never a good reason to settle for somebody. You need to sort out your present relationship, ie, end it, before you proceed any further into this new one. Do not stay with your gf as a hedge, that would be totally dishonourable. My advice then, is to end your relationship before you have to do it as a cheater. It will not be easy and she will be devastated but it would be worse to stay, all the time thinking about the other woman. The new woman may not work out, but that must be a separate issue, and not affect your breakup. Sera
Last edited by Seraph; 11-20-2012 at 02:10 PM.