Re: Thinking of leaving my husband... feeling sick, not sure what to do
I've been married almost forty years and there are phases. But you have to work through them for God's sake. Two years and you want to give up?? Make a Drs. appt to treat your migraines and start a better health regimen because despite what you say, what you're doing now is NOT working for you. Make it a family project of fun and exercise to do together so you and your husband can do things together with the girls.
Give your husband a list of weekly chores. Men like lists. Start small so it's something he can handle. You can gradually increase as his confidence grows.
I think you get the picture here.
Just remember you made a promise to each other. Take those vows seriously....don't cheapen them! You have children to think of also.