Statikkat, I somehow missed this post, thank you so much for your insight!
Very helpful. I really want to help but don't know how without stepping on toes. My friend and her husband think they're doing exactly what they should be doing to help her. The therapist, K and my friend made a deal that therapist will not discuss what she & K talk about unless K is in danger. I just hope the therapist is keeping a close eye on everything. Again, thanks for your reply