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Old 01-01-2013, 12:03 PM   #3
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Re: please help me.

Have you talked to him about this? At the root of most relationship problems is a lack of communication. Many people struggle with how to communicate properly with each other so instead if resolving issues people start yelling or blaming each other. It's not totally hard to do it right but so many people struggle with it. I think you should sit down with him and say, Hey Joe, can we talk about some things? And then without blaming him or accusing him of anything tell him things that you like about what he does and let him know how much you enjoy when he does - whatever - and it would be really great if he would do that more. And then ask him if there's anything that he would like you to do as well. It will make him feel like his feelings matter to you too.