Re: fear of not being dead but of dying...
I am so sorry your have such a fear of what could happen, when you have real things that do need your attention right in front of you.
I understand the fear can be paralyzing, but please remember there are also people who will help you with your immediate needs. The secret to any change is to take baby steps.
Missing out of life in fear of death is the opposite of the bigger plan for our lives, in my opinion. It is a matter of balance. We must devote ourselves to the things we want for ourselves, rather than obsess about the things we dread. What we focus on is what we eventually create for ourselves.
My life was interrupted by 4 strokes, kidney failure, heart attack and serious injury. Finding the most positive frame of mind and attitude is enough to conquer each of our challenges.
Focus on life and life will follow.
Last edited by writeleft; 01-05-2013 at 08:56 PM.