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Old 01-07-2013, 06:40 PM   #4
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Re: having sex after having NONE in quite awhile...

Susanna, I went 7 years after my divorce before I entered a relationship with a man that included sex. Like you I was busy with school and work. I was raising my kids and I wasn't going to jump in to bed with the first guy that came along. Because of that I will tell you I was extremely nervous when it did happen but when it did it was amazing. The guy and I dated afterwards for several months and though our relationship did not work out as a long term relationship but he is probably my best friend now and I rely on him for advice with other relationships and I wouldn't change having waited for anything.