Is he lying or cheating?
I have been married for 9 years. My husband and I have 4 children together. Earlier on in our relationship, I had an affair. I knew what I did was wrong and I confessed to what I had done. He still wanted to continue our marriage and work things out. But over the years, he has become less emotionally attached and more distant. I try so hard to bring him back and try to be this perfect wife, but it is like he doesn't care or respond. I am physically there, but that is it. It hurts so much to not feel wanted. My thoughts and feelings do not seem to matter to him. He is angry towards me a lot. So, because of his distance and anger, I am trying to figure out the cause to it. I wonder if he is cheating on me. He will not let me know the password to his phone and if I ask to use his phone he gets very angry. He doesn't care to spend any time with me. When I question him of course he says no. I just dont know what to do. I hurt a lot and I get tired of it.