Re: Is he lying or cheating?
I saw red flags as well, but considered that he might be taking his feelings about the affair on you. This is something many women know in their hearts, but can not accept in reality
I would be suspicious too, if my husband kept his phone from me, or was acting out.
Did you two ever really clear the air about your affair from before? If not, this could be a festering wound that needs some major attention.
It is hard to guess, with out knowing both of you, but one way or the other, something needs to happen to allow both of you to learn the truth about the state of your marriage, and then make decisions based on what is real.
Last edited by writeleft; 01-09-2013 at 06:46 PM.