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Old 01-27-2013, 07:48 AM   #2
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Re: Trust Issues In Relationship

Hi, the disease of suspicion can certainly ruin a relationship. Trust issues in the past and personal insecurity are a few causes of suspicion. When you and your fiancee made that deal to be 100% faithful, that should have been it. If you get those feelings of suspicion, don't tell your partner unless you have absolute proof something is going on. You need to deal with it yourself and not get each other involved with your baseless suspicion. We are always attracted to other people even when we are committed but the point is not to act on it. So, if you are using phone calls and texts to keep tabs on your partner you are heading down a dark road. The trick is to grow up and deal with your own insecurities and give your partner enough space so that being faithful will be a choice and not a demand.