Hey bud, listen up. The greatest majority of all of us have penises just about that same size. You're in the majority, don't let that stop you from experiencing one of the greatest pleasures in life. Most girls don't fall in love with the penis...they fall for the owner. Be the best man you can, treat them like queens and don't give your penis another thought. As long as it works, there isn't one thing to think about other than using it as it was intended...when you're ready and prepared. As to the weight issue. I'll share this with you. In the last year and a half I've lost about 40 pounds. That has led to an increase in the appearance of my flaccid penis. YEP, losing that extra bit of fat does allow more of your penis to be visible. So, please stop denying yourself a relationship and sex based on these thoughts. Be proud of yourself and about being a man...now go out and forget about this stuff, you'll be glad you did!