Re: need help
I am so proud of you and all the good steps you are taking. You were up front with Hubby and he showed understanding. "Atta girl" for you!
You can not take responsibility for Hubby's issues, but you may be the catalyst for him taking responsibility himself. I am sure he is well in tune with the pill problem and seeing you brave enough to step up and do something about it may be the impetus for him to do the same. That would be great, huh?
Secret, you are opening yourself to others, and facing the fear. You are doing it. Keep moving forward with truth as a weapon and watch all the amazing things that happen. Oh, life will not turn to all peaches and cream Chuckles. There will always be things for us to face head on. But, we become paeticipants in life again and stop worrying that our "secrets' will come out. We learn to put them out their ourselves and lose the worry about others finding us out.
Big smiles for you tonight. :-) :-) :-)