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Old 02-11-2013, 07:59 PM   #5
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Re: Need Help! Trust Issues Abound...

Firstly nothing is ever wasted if it brings you insight into your life. Everything is a learning experience, The only timewasting is repeating our behaviours over and over without knowing why.
There are two issues here. The first is your own choices and you seem to choose women who will treat you badly and you need to address this.
The other issue is the girlfriend. She sounds like a manipulative narcissist. Read up on this and see if any of it fits. Your first stage of breaking this pattern is to realise that you do not deserve to be treated this way and that you will not allow it. If that means ditching this one, then so be it. So rether than wasting time, this relationship will have brought you to a real turning point in your life and you will be aware of behaviour that reinforces your acceptance of deserving to be treated badly.
I hope this makes sense. Sera

 
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