Re: Need Help! Trust Issues Abound...
As long as you learn something, you aren't wasting your time. You realize that you should not be mistreated. You recognize that there are some things you need to work on in yourself. You have come to a place that many, many people never reach and you have the opportunity to heal and grow. If you break it off, you can focus on just you. Once you have taken care of you, then you can seek out and find that special person.
Please don't buy into the "you make me this way" line. We are all responsible for our behaviors regardless of what anyone else says or does. No one forces your girlfriend to do the things she does. She does what she does by her own choice.