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anongf902 · 02-24-2013, 05:35 AM

Thank you for your response. Unfortunately, I do not think me leaving is his wake-up call. I continue to receive texts saying everything is my fault and he thinks it was so easy for me to move out. His main concern seems to be that I took my microwave and I didn't leave him any laundry detergent.

I also tried to reach out to his family for support, with no such luck.

At this point, I guess I try to take care of myself. I feel like I have given 120% to try to help him, but I can't help someone who doesn't even think they have a problem.

I find myself very depressed and angry. I have never left someone who I loved. The best way I can describe the pain -- it's like someone died or is dying in front of me. I am honestly thinking about seeking counseling for myself, to help me deal with all of this. Would anyone suggest this?

I pray for anyone who is going through or who has gone through my situation.

02-24-2013, 05:35 AM	#3
anongf902 Newbie (female) Join Date: Feb 2013 Posts: 2	Re: Boyfriend, Alcoholic? Thank you for your response. Unfortunately, I do not think me leaving is his wake-up call. I continue to receive texts saying everything is my fault and he thinks it was so easy for me to move out. His main concern seems to be that I took my microwave and I didn't leave him any laundry detergent. I also tried to reach out to his family for support, with no such luck. At this point, I guess I try to take care of myself. I feel like I have given 120% to try to help him, but I can't help someone who doesn't even think they have a problem. I find myself very depressed and angry. I have never left someone who I loved. The best way I can describe the pain -- it's like someone died or is dying in front of me. I am honestly thinking about seeking counseling for myself, to help me deal with all of this. Would anyone suggest this? I pray for anyone who is going through or who has gone through my situation.