Re: Why am I never horny?
I would also explore the zoloft. If it was an issue before and now it is worse, first call your doctor and ask for medication that is not known for sexual side effects.
At your young age, it is also normal to be very protective of yourself, against sexually based problems. Whether it is pregnancy, emotional pain, stigma or any other deep seated fears, we can be cautious with sharing our bodies.
Mixing those two things together can make us react like you have found yourself doing.
There is nothing wrong with being very cautious, and with a long lifetime ahead of you, being patient can really be helpful.
Call your doctor to rule out the zoloft first. Good luck