Re: Marriage on the rocks, and maybe in love with someone else?
I agree with Lenvegas: don't reconnect with the other guy until you are totally free and not before you have lived some time on your own.... You need to recharge your own batteries before embarking on another serious relationship. Even if you don't want to save your marriage, I think that seeing that counselor is a very good idea. If the counseling proves good, it may open your eyes to a few things that anyone in your position often is unable to see. Good luck!