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Old 05-02-2013, 12:07 AM   #4
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Re: My partner is unable to get wet...

Lack of lubrication can be from estrogen deficiency, You didn't mention your age, only that she is 8 years older. Lack of anticipation of intimacy or rushing into physical contact without some emotional intimacy, affection, etc can cause the problem too. Testosterone deficiency can cause a lack of libido in general in females as well as males. She may be willing to see her GYN and ask for hormone levels to be checked. If those are ok, you may benefit from some counselling to help explore ways to increase intimacy other than sexual, which usually leads to better sex.