Re: Wife demands I confront friend
In my opinion, it sounds like she wants to control every single situation she is in with you. Everything has to be her way and she feels offended if you won't do what she wants and what she tells you to do. If I were you, lay down the line with her and tell her how it's going to be because if you don't she is going to be controlling and she will know she can get away with it because you "obey" her. It might also be helpful to talk to your friend about how your wife feels, then maybe next time he can be careful what he is saying and try not to offend her.