Hey- I would recommend changing your type of birth control. I also have problems w/ the pill (spotting, weight gain, etc.) and I have tried many different brands, some of which are better than others. You just have to find which one is best for you and your body. I don't know if you have thought about the depo-provera shot, but DON'T do it! All of the side effects are a lot worse with that then on the pill.