Re: two flaps?
The cervix doesnt have two flappy things. It is shaped like an doughnut but instead of a large opening in the middle of the doughnut it is a tiny hole that one cuold barely stick their pinky in. Yes guys can reach it during fingering. For some girls and women it hurts to have the cervix touched and rubbed during fingering or sex itself.
You might want to recheck the pictures you were looking at....
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