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Old 12-22-2003, 12:44 PM   #2
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Re: depressed and lonely

Don't get too hung up on being in a relationship. Enjoy yourself first and get to know who you are. You can't offer much if you can't get yourself together. Just because you're alone doesn't mean you have to feel lonely. The idea that another person is needed to complete you is not healthy. Only when you are complete can you be there for someone else. Surround yourself with good friends and get involved in an activity. Do you like aggressive sports like skateboarding or inline skating? Martial Arts? If you sign up for tae kwondo or something, you'll be getting yourself in shape and you'll be around great people!