Re: 4 yr old son Dxed w/ADHD today
He could have ADHD and an autism spectrum disorder like my 7 yo. In a lot of ways what you describe sounds extremely familiar. If you need any support trying to wade your way through this, I am here. I know how hard it is. David was 4 when we first realized there was a problem and now it is going pretty well now that we have the correct diagnosis and his IEP at school is in place and working well for him.
If you can see a DAN doctor in your area, a neurologist who specializes in autism and then if necessary you will need a neuropsychologist to do a complete assessment.