Re: Estranged Husband how to end the abuse
Hello ALMsmomma1 and welcome.
Have you considered a legal separation,while you sort out things?
There's also couple's counseling to consider or make it a solo endeavor.
If he can't fully appreciate you for the person you are,flaws and all,it's his loss.
You may have deep-rooted feelings for him and he is fully aware of this.It leaves a person vulnerable and I believe he senses this.
Make him earn his way back into both you and your daughter's lives.
It's quite clear that he has a few issues to be worked on but this shouldn't be about him;rather what's best for both you and your daughter.
Please remember that the ball is in your court.
If you notice him trying to incorporate his own rules,you should try your best to stand strong.
Don't let him see you sweat(metaphorically) and try to stand firm on your decisions.
Matters of the heart, more often than not,complicate the decisions you must make.
Feel free to post as often as you like;it's actually encouraged,as it helps to unburden the load you carry.
When in doubt, post it out.