i resently just broke up with my bf of many years because i could not handle his implosive anger he has broken alot of my stuff n has even grabbed me at times with friends ripping him of me i still love him beacuse he was a good person when he wasn't mad ... he says that he only gets mad because i make him mad then it leads to him breaking my stuff and he has no problem breaking my stuff but its not right if i even touch his stuff ... but now i am feeling bad i don't no how to handle people like this what can i do? i need help ...
The following user gives a hug of support to canadianwoman87:
The best thing you can do for a person of this nature is to feed him with a long-handled spoon.
He either doesn't realize or is in denial that the problem stems from his explosive behavior.
You did the right thing.This relationship had the potential of being a much worse scenario.Please don't look back but forward to a bigger,better and brighter future.