For starters, when you are using RAM you absolutely NEED to be cleansing with something MILD MILD MILD. Forget the acne stripping cleansers, forget the toners, and anything else but something gentle. Perhaps that may have added to your increased dryness and sensitivity.
Look, I've been there and I've done it all...I am sure that I am old enough to be your mom. You will get better, but you've got to take charge and try and be a little more positive. We are all here to help you. First things first...if you choose to use medications, they need to be used as directed. RAM comes in different strengths...maybe you need the lowest dose.
Have a better day today. D~