I understand if you don't want to go to a tanning bed. I'm a female and I still don't want to go. Anyways, I have used several different tanning lotions. I have had the best luck with Coppertone Endless Summer. I have only used it on my legs, and one time on my back(for prom). I didn't have any problems with it aggevating any breakouts.
With any tanning lotion, please be careful not to put it on too thickly or it will be streaky. Blend as well as you can and watch for when it begins to darken so you can fix any mistakes pronto. If you need any more help just drop another post.