hair on your fingers and toes, and tiny little hairs on your face is normal. In fact, not having hair on your fingers or toes is a recessive trait. Each pore is actually a hair follicle, although not each one grows a hair.
I've know people with dark hair that use bleaching creme around their jawlines and such, which is an option. My hair is pretty light so it's not noticeable, and as for the stray hairs between the eyes, i just pluck 'em out.