CyndiLyn

Hello there,
My husband has just been diagnosed with adult ADD. He is in the Army, and is has just recently started taking paxil and a med. for his ADD. He sounds very short and I can hear in his voice that he is angry. He says that this is normal when starting his meds. I am in my home town at this point visiting relatives and very much feel like I should be apart of his counceling or recovery I dont know which to call it. He tells me that his councelor says it is probably best that we ( my Son and I ) are not there right now and I feel really left out in the dark about the whole process. I really dont know what to do to help him out nor how to say to him that I feel like he is leaving me out. I've told him that I would help him out in any way possible and will support him. How can I do that here?
Thank you for your help!
CyndiLyn