I have a son that was diagnosed with ADHD when he was 5 yrs old. My son is now 12. we have come a LONG way with this disabilty. Your son sounds as though he "very well could have it" too. They both seem to be making
"close to" the "wrong choices".
I was actually looking some things up on here about back problems, of my own, but I seen the forum about ADHD and I just couldn't pass it up without taking a look at it, as I am always looking for new and interesting topics for ADHD. I can still TRY to get back to you ASAP. I just really do not have much time today.
Other then that, I can relate to what you must be going through.
And I really hope it gets better for you and your son. God Bless you all...Lucy~