Hi
I saw your post and just had to reply, I Have ADD, My father has ADHD and Dsylexia and one of my sons has ADD and Dsylexia. It is common for a person who has Add to have depression or anxiety as result of having ADD. I am no expert BUT I have been tested extensively and my son also. I am now being treated for add and depression with a very small amount of medication.. I cannot tell you the diffrence along with learning modifications to help myself that it has made! It is very likely that you have had a depression due to the ADD.
If there is anything i can offer you,it is this there is a book called MOMS WITH ADD A SELF HELP GUIDE i found it at borders. It is wonderful for us moms who struggle with add and raising a family. I hope you are able to find a doctor who specializes in ADD to help you. I cannot tell you I am less stressed and alot more fun to be around now that i have gotten help! good luck let me know if i can be of any more assistance..