| Re: Need advice on Ritalin; Focalin
Thanks, I am really glad to hear of other's experiences. That is great news that your son is doing well without medication, fortunately some kids do outgrow the need for it or find ways to compensate as they mature. I really am not comfortable with giving my son medication, and he does not take it at all during the summer, school breaks and week-ends. At the beginning of every school year I have waited to see how things go, and every year I get a call within the first week about how he is disorganized, unable to focus on any assignments, cannot pay attention to what is being said, etc. etc. etc.
His ADD/ADHD seems to be on the severe end of the sprectum, yet he is intellegent, articulate and has an amazing memory for any subject (not school related) that he has an interest in. He is barely passing his core subjects this year because he is not doing his class work and home work, and is especially struggling in math. One day he did not take the Ritalin, by accident he had dropped it on the floor. (we hadn't notice because he also takes supplements at the same time). I thought about dropping by school to give it to him but wanted to see if/how it made a difference. He came home VERY flustered and complained about what a bad day it was - he could'nt concentrate AT ALL. So I know it helps somewhat, and for him I feel that the benefits outweigh the risks.
We are going to start with a tutor for math soon; he also has two supplemental periods a day where he is able to get extra help in a small group. But apparently he is not making the best use of that time, as they expect the students to take the initiative and he says he is embarrassed to ask, I also suspect he has trouble organizing his thoughts well enough to know what he needs help with. Both of us are frustrated at this point.
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