LivingWithHope,
You can do just that, "live with hope" that in time you'll be able to manage your ADHD symptoms.
I'll give you my short story: I was dxed at age 53. I'm now 56 and 1/2 years old. Gads, haven't said that since 7.5. When I look at my progress over the three and a half years, it has been nothing short of miraculous. And that is the absolutely true good news.
Not the bad news, but the "reality" news is that my gains graph look much like a good mutual fund multiple year chart where the graph has a few points lower than investment value. There will be times when you want to throw in the towel. Don't. Hang in there for the long haul. It's worth it.
This board is in my opinion the best board for peer support and advice for ADHD life in the real world. I want to debug my brain. The folks here help me do that.
We should write a book, "Brain Debugging for Nerds" and make ourselves a few bucks while we are at it. Yes, I did forget my meds this AM
Bob