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Originally Posted by joibo1usa  How do I stop the impulsive, contrary responses to my lovely bride's attempts to share her feelings? |
This has nothing to do with ADHD. It has everything to do with sex. Men and women are not wired the same.
I solve problems because I am a man. When I post my problems here I expect someone to help me solve them. Yeah, I want a little emphathy just as long as it's packaged with solution.
When my wife speaks she expects me to listen and support her emotionally and under penalty of death I must not try to solve her problems because she already knows how to solve them so the solution is not what she wants.
Wife says she's bored she saying she wants sex not a lecture on how could she be bored since she's been filing nails.
Get it.
Now get this. I'm a hypocrite. I really should try following my advice someday. I'll bet anything it works.
There some freaking book about Venus and Mars. Read it. Won't do you no good but might make good impression.
Bob
Behavior modification? 
Linear Mode
