Aggression and Anger and Food
I just felt compelled to write ... I see a lot of posts about one of the "symptoms" of adhd being children filled with so much aggression. We experienced that first hand with my son. I can't even begin to account the times we dragged him kicking and screaming from stores, events, even church because he always got "over excited." After a blow up, he would seem better for a while, but it would just begin all over again. The sad part was he was always sorry--I knew he was genuinely feeling sorry but he could never control the outburst before it happened. I knew it wasn't good for his self-esteem to feel that he was always doing something for which he felt badly for afterwards. (I know it was good that he recognized what he was doing was wrong, but I'm talking about that feeling your child has when he feels he can never do anything right.) We tried everything, counseling, educating, explaining, time out--ha ha, but nothing worked to break this cycle. He would hit, throw things, say the meanist things, etc. In school it was worse--they couldn't recognize the problems before they got out of control and he would blow almost daily is some way, shape or form. By fourth grade, his classroom was evacuate three times and he was suspended once. He was one unhappy child.
Well, for those who may be interested, one thing change this child completely and that was his diet. We stumbled across a couple of books and one that helped us to become aware of this diet thing was "Is This Your Child" by Doris Rapp. To make a very long story short, we removed additives, preservatives and colors and within a week we had a new child. It gives me goosebumps to write this. I know it may not work for everyone, but for my son, the aggression and anger disappeared. It may work for you.
It was like an allergy of some sort that comes out in a behavioral reaction. Yes, he still has issues, attention and organization, to name a couple but he is such a happy child. The children that used to avoid him have seen over time that he is different. He has friends that are calling or coming over to see him where before they avoided him. It has been four years now.
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