Originally Posted by janewhite1
Unfortunately, a difficult roommate situation can happen to anyone, ADHD or not. I've only heard your side of the story, but it sounds like you didn't create this problem.
It is difficult for some of us to handle interpersonal woes. You might have to lead your household in addressing this person more firmly, or even asking her not to remain.
I rent a house with 2-3 other people and we all have different schedules. The only time we are all on the same page is when we schedule a time slot to hang out, chat and have fun with mutual friends. I set up a weekly laundry schedule to discuss at our next gathering. If all goes well, we will agree to scheduled washing machine privileges. That way everyone gets to do laundry in a timely manner regardless of work/school schedule changes. If they miss their time slot...too bad.
I just hate feeling like the bad guy.