I agree with hopefortoday. I DO know, however, that Ultram is NOT what the drug company said it was - "non-narcotic" and "non-addictive". In the PDR (Physician Desk Reference - the big drug book) it even states that if you have been on opiates before, Ultram can cause withdrawal symptoms. They have now told doctors to only prescribe Ultram for 5 days at a time.
Basically, hopefortoday hit the nail on the head - if someone is an addict (like me - I abused pills for many, many years) you will probably abuse Ultram. If you can cut back on the pills slowly, you are in good shape, and will probably have little or no withdrawal symptoms. Me - I'm an addict, and could NEVER manage to "cut back" on pills. As a matter of fact, whenever I tried to do that, I ended up "rebounding" and taking more than I was before I started cutting back!
One final note - none of us here are doctors, and certainly not YOUR doctor. A second opinion can always be helpful. It seems to me that you must have some kind of concern, since you are here on this forum. Just always be open and honest with your doctors. I have found that pain management doctors seem to have a better understanding of physical dependence vs. addiction, since they deal with patients who take narcotics for a LONG time.
Good luck. May God's hand show you the right path, and give your doctors wisdom.