Re: My husband still disapproves of me.
Kat, hey there. I would not put up with being treated like a teenager. So here's the perspective from Poke Salad Alley: I'd say, Look, I was honest with you, I could have kept on deceiving you cuz bubba that was SO EASY, but no, I was honest with you, and you've known me for a quarter century, and I'm an adult woman, and if you think you're going to play detective with my bank balance and odometer you can ______________.
Filling in one of the following, or your own choice:
1. go to hell.
2. pack your bags right now.
3.pray about it until you see the light.
4. go back to the drawing board.
5. think again.
Of course there is something he has not been honest with you about either, something he's kept secret that you would not approve of, and though I don't know what that is I can promise you its there. Don't forget that. He doesn't get to "play saint" with you as the sinner.